In everything we do, we are saying something to our children.
In everything we do, we speak not only to our children, but also to the children in our world.
When did our value become so attached to our appearance? The value of who we are, needs to go deeper than our skin.

I have been thinking a lot lately with the American style beauty pageants coming to Australia. I do not want to this post to be about what is right or what is wrong. What I do hope, is that you take a moment to think about at how you communicate with children.
These thoughts come purely from my own up bring and my life – which may be completely different to yours. For many years, I had eating disorders and self esteem issues. I hope my children never have those issues.
Our beauty is from within
Our beauty is not just skin
We hear words spoken
From an age too young
We are influenced
But not often encouraged
We are told to fix it
To be accepted
Yet we are perfect
The way we’re created
Our body is a vessel
To move us through this life
Our features are not faults
One of a kind – unique
Our heart can be filled
Our heart can be shattered
What you do speaks volumes
What you say may be heard
How can a toddler understand?
That value is not determined
By the curl of their hair
By the lash on her eye
Their value is deeper
Creation at its purest
Their perfection resonates
Idealistic pretty is short
Youth lived is a season
Genuine beauty is forever
Compassionate hearts shine
A generous life is expansive
Humanity is calling us
Do we teach our children?
Do we show our children?
Do we guide our children?
Do we push our children?
A pageant is harmless
If the heart is guarded
If the value is secure
If the beauty is deeper
Than the skin that is seen
To run free
To be shining
And bright
To feel alive
To live each
Moment with joy
To find peace
To know that who they are
Is who they were meant to be
Our children
More than ever
Need value placed
Deeper than the skin
As deep as we can get
Our value lies in our heart
The person we were created to be